Fit people actually take a lot of reverse bullying of sorts. So let me speak on behalf of an underground sexual preference that is not overtly stated out of politenesss. Keep in mind that this post is pure opinion. If you rail too belligerently against what I have to say you risk seeming like you may need therapy, like a guy threatening to go to blows over a stranger ordering chocolate ice cream instead of vanilla. Just enjoy your vanilla, dude.
i have been accused of being a fat hater, of being shallow, unloving, rigid,etcetera. i have done my fair share of on-line dating very much like study in statistics and demographics given my educational background in engineering, computer programming and operations research. i have received three days of text debates and essay long diatribes regarding my dieing alone with no one to wipe my skinny opinionated although shapely ass. I have been told I was missing out on great cooking and real love because of my sexual preferences or standards. I've been counseled by well meaning friends that I need to widen my net and embrace SOFT.
Let me state that shy males that dont want to be judged need to sleep with submissive females that maybe dont really care what happens in bed as long as it doesn't cut into their spa or FB time. I've gotten these texts. And my reply was it's tough to be naked in bed with someone and not notice them or form some kind of impression of them.
So here is the deal; It's a texture thing.
Sex usually involves looking and touching. Of course it helps if you can have conversation, share interests or goals and beliefs. But brain matter doesn't directly contact brain matter. We cant bump cerebral cortexes.
And trust me if you happen to be reading this and you have never worked out, dense muscle tissue is like terre firma. In contrast both unused muscle and just fat alone feels like jello and whip cream blended with down feathers...and i personally dislike that sort of gooshie sensation either to my touch or against my own flesh.
Call it a freakish deviant preference if you need to but it just cant be that far from just the boob-guy, butt-guy, legs-guy categories. Men objectify body part sectors. you can get away with a so-so face if you have a 8+ ass and maybe a cute giggle to seal the deal.
so I want to declare texture as a deal breaker even if you got a mint in the bank, are powerful or connected, are super expert with your left middle finger or have some Costanza tongue swirl specialty.
